Showing posts with label real life stories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label real life stories. Show all posts

Friday, April 02, 2010

Movie Time at Fireblossom's - Give a Damn

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You might know Shay as the gifted poetess, and all-around comical cut-up Fireblossom. I'm always entertained, often amused by her writing, but today, she's got on her mind that I hope you'll take the 50 seconds it takes to watch the video she's posted. C'mon. You have 50 seconds, right? You could do it during a TV time-out. Sitting at a traffic light. On the StairMaster or waiting for the microwave for cryin' out loud.

Why do I care? The violence doesn't end with the overt physical brutality of an obvious hate crime. It also slithers under the surface where two-faced friends who use the words "love" and "but" together stick a knife in the ribs that's invisible and formless but no less real, and even more evil for its deceit.

And it doesn't end with the one who's beaten up or killed either. The stain of violence against one individual never stops spreading. It impacts . And it spreads to those who know those who know those.

It's the worst kind of virus. And the saddest thing is that's 100% preventable.

I look at my brand new grandson and think, I want him to grow up in a world where it's okay for him to be who he is. Whoever that turns out to be. His father didn't, his grandfather surely didn't. And he probably won't. But maybe his son will. Or his grandson.

But first we have to give a damn.

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Friday, March 26, 2010

meet brayden michael

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"Brayden Michael - 21 1/2" 8 lbs, 10 oz"
Raleigh, NC - 2053 hrs EDT 26 March 2010 (Click to embiggen)


I didn't take this one, it came direct from the delivery room. All reports are that mother and baby (and dad) are all well and fine. More details as they become available. And Grandpaparazzi won the pool with a guess of 21.5" and 8 lbs 7 oz. Looks just like his dad when he was born. Nothing's more life affirming than this.
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we have liftoff

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No details on specs yet, but Brayden Michael has finally taken his place among us. Unofficial time 2055 hrs 26 Mar 2010 (Update: Official time 2053). Stay tuned. More details as they become available.

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crowning achievement

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Best reports form the front line suggest that Young Sir is showing off his full head of hair. I'd say it shouldn't be long now, but I know better. This kid has already made it clear he's operating on his own schedule and will not be rushed. So we wait.

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getting down to business

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Okay, we're getting down to business now. There's pushing going on (which I'm quite sure is a relief for Baby Momma). And there's a race going on between her and the other girl whose family has taken over the other half of the waiting room. Won't be long now. My entry in the pool is 21.5" 8lbs 7oz.

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reflections: past, present, future

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This is a new experience for me. Every other time I've been in this place, I was a participant. Okay, as much of a participant as a father can be. You know what I mean. This time I'm not even really a spectator. Just sitting in this waiting room... waiting. Which anyone who knows me can tell you is something I'm way not good at. But an interesting thought just occurred to me. This new grandson will represent the third generation of my family born in this place. It's changed a lot -- and even moved -- in the last 50 years. When I was born it was over on the corner of Wade Ave and St. Mary's St. (heh, like you'd know where that is) The unemployment office is in that building now. When my sons were born they hadn't built this birthing center yet. We came in through the ER and went to the typical L&D setup. I don't know so much about this "Family Birthing Center" they have now. Not sure what makes it different unless they've just got more and different ways of doing -- or facilitating -- what they do. Wasn't an option when mine came along. Things have certainly changed a lot since then. But the waiting? Still the same.

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it's that time people

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For those of you that already knew, the blessed event has begun. For those who didn't, I'm about to become a grandpa. Updates as I get a chance.

I am so not ready for this. But I'm told it's a lot easier with a generation in between. Can't confirm or deny. This is my rookie season.

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Thursday, October 29, 2009

As Real As It Gets: "Speaking Without Tongues"

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"The women and girls who live this story do not want to be seen. They tell their stories in dim light, in rooms with tightly closed doors; they glance at windows to be sure there is no opening. They do not want to remember. They do not want to speak. No matter. What is not spoken is still heard." --

Follow this link to see the slideshow at full size.

Our Town.

That was my first thought as I eased into the front row of Reynolds Theater at Duke University on a rainy Tuesday evening and got my first look at the stage that would house production of And the sparse staging does recall Thornton Wilder's landmark study in Americana, but that's about as far as the similarity goes. George and Emily do not live happily ever after here. Because in this town, George is a hideous memory that still haunts and terrifies Emily even after she has escaped him.

Weaving together the metaphorical Russian fairy tale of The Armless Maiden with the gritty, real-life stories of the players on stage isn't merely a play. It is a testimony. Told in snippets taken from each player's personal life, the pieces fall together so easily that it could all have been one tale. And in fact, it is one tale. One that is repeated every nine seconds in the US alone.

What was presented on the Reynolds stage was not a work of fiction. The stories told by the players were their own, told in their own words, their own voices, their own expressions and their own tears. Horror is heaped up on horror until even I was sure that they must be making it up. Then I realized that I only wished they were making it up. Because the stories played out in the dark of the stage are the same ones I read every week on . But with the added component of being able to see the face and hear the voice that is telling the story. This? This is as real as it gets.

What has always confounded me personally is that however different the stories may be in the details, at their core they are all one story. The formula is as tested and true as any script, only the actors and the locations change. And I can't help but wonder if the pattern is so very predictable, why is this still a problem?

Maybe this is Our Town after all.

If you have the opportunity to see in the future, see it. If you've seen it already, see it again. It carries a message that cannot be told -- or heard -- often enough, even by those who know it already.

If you'd like more information on this and other Hidden Voices Projects, visit .

For details on Speaking Without Tongues in particular, visit .

And if you'd like to see additional photos by other people (who are actually associated with the project) from last year's production and behind the scenes, visit . (Note: At last check the link to the participants' portraits was broken, but because I'm so very clever I was able to figure out that it should be: .)


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